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Name: Stephanie
Birthday: 11/7/1983
Gender: Female


Interests: Kicken it with the GrEaTeSt sisters anyone could've offered... the girls of aKDPhi! And work.... sleep and work...
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Sunday, October 25, 2009

Mortality is a tough lesson to learn... Especially to be learned thru the loss of a great friend. AJ you've touched so many lives and been inspirational to many. I'm still having trouble coping. It's like a really bad dream you kno? Things like this are not supposed to happen to people like him... Not to someone with such a beautiful spirit, a new wife and 2 month old baby. It's just not fair.

AJ, you've truly made me realize that life is too short and I should embrace every moment, care even more, and love with all my heart. I can't truly express in words what you have done for me and for those whose lives you've graced but I can say that you've shown me that even the purest of hearts can be taken and I should never take things for granted. My love, support, and deepest condolences go out to Angel, baby Kayla, and the Numazu family. I'm definitely not a church goer but I will silently pray only the best for those that love you to have the strengh to keep going.

We love you superman... You will forever live in my fondest memories.


Wednesday, February 25, 2009

So i think we're due for an update... oh how things have changed. 

.........This is the original........

TOP 10 WAY YOU KNOW YOU'RE GETTING TO BE "OLD SKOOL" (in no particular order)

1.  Everyone that USED TO know your name when you went anywhere (installs, presents, parties, etc.) are gone

2.  Everyone asks when you crossed and your response is "a while ago"

3.  You look around the room and all of a sudden you realize all your pledge sisters/bros graduated

4.  Looking at your house roster, you can point to every name and say "I PLEDGED YOUR ASS"

5.  You try and run for a position in your house only to realize you've held them all... or at least all the ones you wanted

6.  You have a GRAND LIL if not farther down the line

7.  When talking to your neos, you start every sentence with, "well back when i pledged...."

8.  You look in your closet to notice you have 3 sections to your closet, kick-it clothes, work clothes, and GREEK CLOTHES.... and the "greek clothes" section takes up 50% of your wardrobe (although you hardly wear them anymore)

9.  You go to house parties and watch the neos get TRASHED and think "fucking stupid asses... i was NEVER like that"

10.  People ask when you crossed and after you tell them, they scream "GODDAMN!  YOU'RE OLD SCHOOL!"

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And THIS is the new one

 TOP 10 WAYS YOU KNOW YOU'RE GETTING TO BE "TOO OLD SCHOOL" (in no particular order)

1.  Everyone that USED TO know your name when you went anywhere (installs, presents, parties, etc.) are gone are ENGAGED, MARRIED, or have KIDS... and the only reason you know this is because of FACEBOOK or MYSPACE. (LOL!)

2.  You stopped going to affiliated events a looooong time ago but still get a little peeved when you don't hear anything about what's going on in your house as an Alum.

3.  You realize all your pledge sisters/bros graduated  HAVE FALLEN OFF THE FACE OF THE EARTH WILL ONLY GET TOGETHER IF YOU PLAN A REUNION

4.  Looking at your house roster, you can point to every name and say "I PLEDGED YOUR ASS" "i PLEDGED some of your asses... the rest of you I DON'T EVEN KNOW!" "WHO THE FUCK IS THAT?  When did SHE cross??"

5.  You try and run for a position in your house only to realize you've held them all... or at least all the ones you wanted

6.  You have a GREAT GREAT GREAT GRAND LIL if not farther down the line... and you only met him/her once only seen pictures of them

7.  When talking to your neos, you start every sentence with, "well back when i pledged...." "back in the day.... when i was still active...." "oh lord... are you from my chapter too?"

8.  You look in your closet to notice you have 3 sections to your closet, kick-it clothes, work clothes, and GREEK CLOTHES.... and the "greek clothes" section takes up 50% of your wardrobe (although you hardly wear them anymore) You are trying to GIVE AWAY your greek shit to your lineage cuz you know you're not gonna use it anymore. Whatever you have failed to give away has turned into a dust collector or a night shirt

9.  You go to house parties and watch the neos get TRASHED and think "fucking stupid asses... i was NEVER like that" "Fucken Neos.... what's your name again??" You just don't go to house parties anymore... cuz we're old enough to go to the BARS! 

10.  People ask when you crossed and after you tell them, they scream "GODDAMN!  YOU'RE OLD SCHOOL!" "WTF are you doing HERE?!.... you're HELLA OLD!" You randomly show up to an affiliated party (for whatever reason) and people know who you are, when you crossed, who your pledge bros/sisters are and bow down to you for being the oldest MF in the spot... then they grab you a beer

11.  You go to ANY greek party, find SOMEONE that crossed around the same time as you, and talk about who has to wake up earlier to go to work the next day

 


Monday, June 09, 2008

i suffer from a subluxing patella or temporarily dislocated knee cap... a.k.a. the shit i did to put me on crutches in 2005

This just goes to show, fat people are not supposed to do lunges.... lol! 

I guess it's just abs and arms with thighs for a while.  =T


Friday, April 18, 2008

I don't write on this NEARLY as much... with the facebookers and myspacers out there.... Xanga's like the red-headed stepchild.... you forget it's there sometimes.  lol!  So if anyone really still reads this thing (or is like me and only reads the e-mail updates... lol!).... here's the 411. 

Lots has happened in 4 months... lots of good things with a week of bad here and there.

Biggest news: I moved from Oakland to San Bruno with my hunny.  i know... i know... "HUGE STEP".  Yes i see that.  But shit, when you're commute time goes from 45 minutes to 15 minutes.... makes it worth it.  With gas prices what they are now... ::WHEW::  FUCK that.  Save money on gas AND toll everyday.  Oh yeah... and i get to see him everyday!  lol!  I miss my roommates though (although i wasn't home to see them most of the time anyway).  It's just the 2 of us so there's no real noise... at both our houses before you hear.... other TVs... people talking... video games.  When you're there... it's slightly annoying but you get over it.  However, you don't realize how soothing those noises are for you until they're not there.  Now i be at home hearing rustling in the trees and shit.... and i wake up my boyfriend like "hunny!  There's someone in the living room!!!"  and i make him get out of bed and look.... then he comes back... pats my head like "aww.... you're special! (.... ed)" and makes me turn around and go to sleep.

We've gotten thrown off track from going to the gym... mainly because we're trying to get caught back up and ish.... but next week we will!  (i hope... ) lol!  Work's good... doing the same ish... getting a little tired of it but that's a horrible habit with me... i have such a short attention span when it comes to work.... i need constant stimuli or my mind starts wondering. (obviously... i'm at work right now.  lol!)  and everything and everyone else is good.

I miss everyone on Xanga!  Let me know how you're all doing!!!



Wednesday, January 02, 2008

HAPPY NEW YEAR!  and welcome to '08!


*thought of the year*

sometimes we miss what we used to have....
sometimes we regret what we have now....
sometimes we miss what we never had at all...

But one day life will be perfect... and one day,

we will not miss what we used to have but remember fondly what has made us who we are today
we will not regret what we have now but cherish and embrace what we have gained
we will not miss what we never had but dream of what we could have in the future

one day, our lives will be perfect... just takes a lot of bumps and bruises to get there






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